Hey there. I’m Dr. K. Let’s create the life you want - you don’t have to feel stuck.


This is for people who are tired of feeling like life is too hard.

This is for people who feel stuck in their relationship struggles. 

This is for people who want to move forward and live the life they have always wanted. 

This is for people who want to solve their overwhelm and find a better way to thrive. 

Trust me!


I used to live my life in a consistent state of depression and anxiety.  Most of my life was defined by trauma responses. It was affecting my relationships with others. The trauma responses were affecting my marriage. More importantly, it was affecting my relationship with myself! I knew that if I continued down this path, my life would be in shambles.

But that all changed when I took action…

I had to make the decision to seek out help to get to the life I wanted. I chose to transform my life and my thinking to create a life I love. Because I got the help I needed, I have the most amazing relationship with an amazing partner. I have the sex life of my dreams and my fears and anxiety are gone! All because I made the decision to seek something different. If I can do it, you can too!

I have no red table but there is always room on my virtual couch.

You deserve the life you love, however, you won’t be able to experience that transformation unless you have the correct tools and resources available to support you in that goal. Luckily for you I have those tools, and I am ready to help you.

Whether you are an individual or a couple, having diverse approaches will give you multiple options and enable me to assess and decipher which approach works best for you. Flexibility is the way to unlock the hidden potential for transformation and growth.


Dr. Kimmery Newsom studied at Kansas State University, where she completed a BS in psychology in 2004, MS in Marriage and family therapy in 2006, and a PhD in Family Studies in 2013. She has been working with individuals and couples for over 17 years. She is a life coach, a Certified Family Life Educator (CFLE), certified sex addiction treatment provider (CSATP), and is licensed clinically as a marriage and family therapist in KS, MN, and WI.  Her areas of focus for coaching include but are not limited to, sexual trauma, relationship dynamics, depression, anxiety, sex addiction, cultural issues related to racism and discrimination in society. 

Dr. Kimmery Newsom has over 13 years of experience teaching in the college classroom, graduate and undergraduate, as a graduate teaching assistant, instructor, and assistant professor. Her college classroom work has been split between Kansas State University and University of Wisconsin-Stout. Dr. Newsom received tenure in Human Development and Family Studies (HDFS) undergraduate program at the University of Wisconsin-Stout. She has published articles and completed numerous national and international presentations in the research areas of diversity, equity and inclusion and trauma and resilience from sexual abuse. Dr. Newsom is the first author on a textbook that was released in August 2020 entitled Culture and Diversity in Family Life Education. More recently, she self-published her first personal work entitled Sounds of the Soul  as an eBook on Barnes and Noble. In her spare time, she enjoys reading, listening to music, and writing and spending time with her children and partner.

Ready To Start? Let's Break It Down.....


Make the decision you want to transform your life. Make the choice that you are willing to do what it takes to get there. Explore the resources included and review the program that Dr. K offers. Once you do that, take the next step. 


Assess the aspects of the formula that Dr. K uses to assist people with their stuck points and how they resonate with you. Then, review the offer and move to the next step.


Sign up for Dr. K’s program and start the process of creating the life you were meant to live! Through the program, you will learn how to decrease individual and relational stress, less anxiety, and decrease trauma responses.

My trauma created a lot of my anxiety and worry.

The racialized trauma I experienced was also very prevalent. I thought to myself, “I am a coach and therapist and I teach people about racial trauma, so I should be able to deal with these issues right?” Not so much. I was stuck in time dealing with the trauma of my past. I felt like you; like there was no way to get out of these stuck places. I thought I was going to be there forever. 

I sought help over and over again and nothing seemed to stick. Everywhere I turned, I could not break the cycle. I ended up doing some really destructive things and damaged relationships in the process of trying to find answers. I felt hopeless.

What I had to learn was that every person needs help at some point. Even the guide has to be guided. So, I sought out the help I needed. It put me in the position to learn how to love my life and live my life. I was ready to do the work of transformation of my thinking. I am glad I did. I finally found a formula that works!  Now I want to share that with you. 

This is for people who are tired of feeling like life is too hard.

This is for people who feel stuck in their relationship struggles.

This is for people who want to move forward and live the life they have always wanted.

This is for people who want to solve their overwhelm and find a better way to thrive.

We are all on a quest to find the way to live our best lives. When you sign up for my program, you will receive the formulas necessary to achieve your goal of the peace and harmony in your life and your relationships. You deserve a life you love but you will not have that life if you do not have the tools needed to move towards it that goal. 

Whether you are individual who needs the tools to have the life you have always wanted to live and/or want to have the relationships of your dreams, you can benefit for the different approaches provided in Dr. K’s program. You will learn to love yourself completely and create a judgment-free zone in your mind and relationships.

If you are ready to have the life you want, the life you deserve, sign up for Dr. K’s life coaching and/or relationship coaching programs. Dr. K’s programs give you the tools to you need create the life of peace and serenity that you have been searching for.